Now, the real important part will be after your done with sex.
He will be a little out of sorts. Don't leave him unless absolutely necessary. Stay close, reassure him, and help him back to his right mind. Even being gentle in control can have a profound effect.
Never choke him. He panics very hard if you do. I haven't done it, but someone else did to him. It's bad.
I have all sorts of pet names I give him. Depending on his mood he sometimes likes to be called whore and slut. I prefer praise but he enjoys those names.
And make sure you get his safeword. Something he'll say if he needs everything to stop.
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yeah. he is.
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He will be a little out of sorts. Don't leave him unless absolutely necessary. Stay close, reassure him, and help him back to his right mind. Even being gentle in control can have a profound effect.
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okay, got it. I'm very good at not leaving. is there anything else? any pet names he likes or stuff I should avoid or anything?
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I have all sorts of pet names I give him. Depending on his mood he sometimes likes to be called whore and slut. I prefer praise but he enjoys those names.
And make sure you get his safeword. Something he'll say if he needs everything to stop.
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I don't think I could...
I could try.
okay, safe word, got it.
does it make you nervous? doing it?
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No, not really. I'm sort of a dominate personality anyway. I treasure the trust he puts in me to do this sort of thing.
Because it is quite the sign of trust.
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you are much more naturally dominant than me.
[it's something that she feels drawn in by, on many levels]
but! I wanna do it.
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You are nature. Your are the start and end of all things. When civilization crumbles you will reclaim it. Nothing can stop you.
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yeah! yeah. i am. i am. nothing can stop me.
thank you, shaun.
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